What do you do when you know something is going on with someone you love. 

I am very analytical so first I look at what's changed. I also have asked what I can do to help. When it someone who is a fiercly independant as myself I took the persons word that they would call and set up appointments with medical and other help.....and I waited. I waited while anger and resentment over past forgiven and gone things were dredged up. I waited while we together rode the roller coaster of the persons emotions. This person can be very loud and yet childish when in this state (to the point of screaming with their hands over their ears). Or lashing out and hurling accusations of things simply unbelievable to anyone who truly knows me. I do not cheat. Never have never will. I am not petty. I have no resentment towards this person. I just want happiness and a drought of drama. I have through all with this person tried to remind I just want them to get some medical care etc. I want the person to be whole again and not so fractured. I have no other list of "done me wrongs". I wish the other person felt the same but they don't apparently. So I am going forward to the best of my Irish ability.